Family secrets

Family secrets can be shocking sometimes, recently I was just been updated regarding a cousin of mine, which was quite a shocking news at that time. I felt for him, I wanted to reach out to him  and say, "It's ok. I understand." But how can I do that, when he doesn't know that I know and some other people related to him.
Unfortunately, it seems that he have to face his demon alone, since he is not willing to be open about it.

Life... huh, sometimes put us in a tough position, disable us to stand up for ourselves and force us to lead a pretence lifestyle.